Day of Dignity 2009 National Coordinator, Karim Amin reflects on the D.C. Day of Dignity event.
Under the shadows of the capitol, where laws are passed and all men are created equal, we find the worst inequalities.
Everyone on this day has a story. From the abused woman who had to choose between a home or her life, to the man with his bags packed but no where to go, who just lost his wife. Now the streets are his home.
Life doesn’t always give us roses. But on this day Islamic Relief volunteers gave a something to brighten the day of some of D.C.’s poorest residents. Led by Sayeed Mowlina, dozens of volunteers provided food, clothing, hygiene products, and a smile to people that are homeless and residents of CCNV shelter.
One gentleman I met shared his story with us. He was recently separated from his wife and forced back on the street. The streets were now his home for the second time in his life. Through strained tears he told his story. We provided him with a bag of food, hygiene kits, clothing, and gloves.
He said he needed the help. It brightened his day. Although he appreciated the products, most of all he appreciated someone listening to him, if only for one day.
Muslim-American community organizations are working to help communities, from Atlanta to Baltimore and from Phoenix to Philadelphia, through Muslim Americans Answer the Call. These community groups are offering programs focused on health care, the environment, education, and community renewal in communities across the country.
Volunteer projects such as the Day of Dignity on Aug. 29, sponsored by Islamic Relief USA in Baltimore and 19 other cities, during which Muslim-American volunteers invite volunteers from diverse faith traditions to provide compassionate care to all those in need regardless of color, race or creed.
“I’m down on luck,” Frances, a 50-year-old homeless woman, told me in front of Baltimore City Hall, as she wiped tears from her face.
I was with a caravan of volunteers that had been driving around downtown Baltimore, searching for clusters of homeless individuals so we can serve them some fried chicken and french fries. We saw a group in front of City Hall and pulled over, setting up a table for food, and passing aid parcels filled with items we figured they’d need, like towels, blankets and basic hygiene items.
More than 1,000 locals were already receiving a hot meal and the aid parcels, in addition to health screenings, financial and employment advice among other services in front of Masjid Ul-Haqq across town, but we wanted to bring the ‘Day of Dignity’ to those who couldn’t make it.
Frances saw us and ran over. With the smell of freshly fried chicken bombarding my nostrils, I watched her collect her aid, in addition to some feminine hygiene items. She was shocked to see what we were doing and let the tears flow as she thanked us.
“Thank you,” she kept on saying, wiping her tears away with her new towel. “You really did help me.”
I stared back in awe, not sure how a hot meal and a bag with some things could make her so emotional.
“I’m serious,” she kept saying. “I’m not just saying that.”
I took my camera out and started recording for our donors to see, but I don’t need the video to remember the look on her face. I will never forget the gratitude she showed, but I felt like we traded places; like it was a reversal of roles, for just a second.
Picture this: Hundreds of homeless and underserved Baltimoreans enjoying a hot meal with smiles on their faces and stories to share, while privileged people like me and you observe the daylong Ramadan fast, starving and thirsty, looking on.
It was a beautiful thing.I asked one of the beneficiaries, “What are we doing wrong, can we do anything else for you?”
“Y'all are doing everything right and nothing wrong!” he replied. “We greatly appreciate it!” he said. But I knew he wasn’t praising me: this wouldn’t be possible without our donors and volunteers.
Another man told me that without Islamic Relief he would not have survived the previous winter.
“I still have the blanket I got from last year’s event,” he told me. The fact that these
people remember and look forward to this ‘Day of Dignity,’ which is only one day of the year, made me feel like we’re making a difference. But it also made me sad.
We shouldn’t be doing this once a year, or just once a month. These are people suffering just down the street from our mosques and homes. We should have reached out to them everyday.
The ‘Day of Dignity’ changed my life and my attitude towards poverty, and it might do the same for you.

'Day of Dignity' Expands to Help More People in More Cities
Volunteers across the country are teaming with Islamic Relief USA in the annual 'Day of Dignity' effort to serve thousands of homeless and underserved people in 19 cities.
After eight years of organizing the event only during the month of Ramadan, Islamic Relief USA lengthened the 'Day of Dignity' effort to ten weekends and expanded to 19 cities. The event began August 15 and will run until December 6.
Providing beneficiaries with food, clothing, blankets, medical care, first aid, and other social services, Islamic Relief USA staff and volunteers will offer assistance to all who attend, regardless of their backgrounds.
"These people treated me with dignity, and that's all I can ask for," Sandra Carpenter, one of the 20,000 people who benefitted from last year's 'Day of Dignity,' told the Seattle Times. She said she had been sleeping on a mat in a homeless shelter for over a month, so the clothing and healthcare she received from Islamic Relief USA were very helpful.
"I may be down on my luck, but I am still a human being. It's sort of nice to be treated like one," she said.
In the Islamic tradition, Ramadan is the month of spirituality, self-reflection, service, and compassion, but is perhaps most known for its daylong fasts where Muslims abstain from food, water and marital relations from dawn till dusk. Many of the volunteers who will be helping Islamic Relief USA are observant Muslims who fast the month of Ramadan, which began on August 22.
"Ramadan helps us feel the hunger and thirst that 'Day of Dignity' beneficiaries feel," Islamic Relief USA Domestic Programs Coordinator Karim Amin said. "It's a feeling we can barely deal with for one month, but they have to feel it year-round. That's why it's so important we help them this Ramadan."
With a team of staff, local coordinators and volunteers dedicated to the cause, Amin is optimistic about this year's event.
"Thanks to popular support, we were able to expand and we hope to help more people than ever," he added. Last year, Islamic Relief USA held the 'Day of Dignity' in 18 cities, helping about 20,000 people.
The 2009 'Day of Dignity' will take place on the following dates, in these cities:
Aug. 15 Fort Thompson, SD
Aug. 22 Chicago, IL
Aug. 29 Baltimore, MD
Aug. 30 Philadelphia, PA
Sept. 5 Washington, D.C.; Dallas, TX; Newark, NJ
Sept. 6 Atlanta, GA
Sept. 12 Detroit, MI; Kalamazoo, MI
Sept. 13 Boston, MA
Sept. 19 Portland, OR
Sept. 26 Elizabeth, NJ
Sept. 27 Irvington, NJ
Oct. 3 Brooklyn, NY
Oct. 4 Manhattan, NY
Nov. 21 Seattle, WA
Dec. 5 Phoenix, AZ
Dec. 6 Las Vegas, NV
For more information please contact Domestic Programs Coordinator, Karim Amin at karim@IslamicReliefUSA.org.
A native boy picks his prize for winning carnival games during Day of Dignity South Dakota.
Islamic Relief USA staff member Melissa Barreto recently returned from the first 'Day of Dignity' event which was held at the Crow Creek Native American reservation in South Dakota on August 15. She could not forget her experience and reflected on the plane ride back. Below are some excerpts from her journal.
In Native American culture, giving is a cherished and respected custom. And I don’t mean giving with the expectation of a profit. I mean giving in the pure sense, giving without want for something in return.
It’s this kind of pure giving that forms the foundation of loving and lasting relationships.
This relationship is one that Islamic Relief USA has been able to build with the native community of South Dakota through the 'Day of Dignity' distributions.
Assistant Coordinator Anisah David told me about her experience the first year Islamic Relief USA brought Day of Dignity to Ft. Thompson.
“People were really surprised that we were just giving things away without asking for anything in return or trying to sell them anything,” she said. “Apparently, no one had ever done that before, and we were really surprised by that.”
As the 'Day of Dignity' events continued at Ft. Thompson, more and more residents became curious about Islamic Relief USA’s work and about the Muslims who volunteered their time to help.
This year, over 500 reservation residents attended the event and received towels,
washcloths, hygiene kits, clothing, and enjoyed carnival games with their
children.
“This is our first time to this event, it’s really nice and I appreciate it very much,” one woman told me. “I didn’t know that your people knew about us.”
She didn’t know that my people, Muslim people, knew about her. Her words struck me so deep that I couldn’t even verbalize a response to her at the time we were talking. Then she went one step further and struck me again by saying, “It’s good to make new relatives.”
SubhanAllah (Glory be to God)! This woman, who just a moment before was surprised I even knew of her existence, had just included me, and Muslims at large, as a part of her very own family.
This is the impact that Day of Dignity has. This is the impact of giving.
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